In a world where perfection is an expectation, figuring it all out is not easy.

How do I become a boss lady? Why is a credit score all of the sudden important? Is an app really the best way to get asked on a date? Those shoes cost how much?! Does Netflix purposely torture me when it asks me if I’m still here? Is cheese a carb?

We live in a society where, previously, a filter was only meant to alter the color of our pictures but now it serves to alter what people think is our everyday reality. We can get so consumed in trying to be perfect that we often create a life for ourselves that we don’t even live! We want others to think we have it all together yet we still dream of what our life could be.

But here’s what I realized: You DON’T have to have it all together to have an amazing life.